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Negotiation Skills-5

Negotiation Skills-5

Effective Preparation for a Negotiation

Before entering any negotiation, good preparation is your biggest strength.
Effective preparation involves three essential abilities.
Think of them as the three pillars of a strong negotiation foundation.

🔵 1. Self-Assessment

This is the first and most important step.

Self-assessment means understanding your own goals, needs, strengths, and limits.

You must ask yourself:

  • What do I really want from this negotiation?
  • What is my “must-have” and what is “good to have”?
  • What am I willing to give or trade?
  • What is my BATNA (Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement)?
  • What are my strengths and weaknesses in this situation?

When you are clear about yourself,
you negotiate with confidence and clarity.

🟦 2. Counterparty Assessment

The second ability is understanding the other side.

Good negotiators always ask:

  • What do they want?
  • What pressures or constraints are they facing?
  • What value do they need from this deal?
  • What might be their BATNA?
  • What are their strengths and weaknesses?

By understanding the other party’s needs and motivations,
you can build bridges, not walls.
You can create proposals that appeal to them while still benefiting you.

This is the secret of win-win outcomes.

🟫 3. Assessment of the Situation

The third ability is understanding the context in which negotiation is happening.

Here you analyze:

  • What is the current market or business environment?
  • Is this negotiation urgent or long-term?
  • Is there any power imbalance between the two sides?
  • What external factors (technology, law, competition, resources) affect the negotiation?
  • What are the risks if the negotiation fails?

When you understand the situation clearly,
you can take realistic decisions
and choose strategies that match the environment.

💡 In Summary

Effective preparation requires:

1️⃣ Self-Assessment — Know yourself
2️⃣ Counterparty Assessment — Know the other party
3️⃣ Situation Assessment — Know the environment

When all three are strong, your negotiation becomes:

✔ Structured
✔ Confident
✔ Strategic
✔ Win–Win focused